Just a Boring Post (With Pictures)

I kept trying to find a catchy title but couldn't think of anything as this post is just a bit of a boring update.

We all survived week one of school. John came to school on Thursday and did pretty well. Robert and I have a class that overlaps by 15 minutes so my professor told me I could bring John as long as he was quiet. When Robert's class is over he comes and gets him from my class. John sleeps pretty well at night (with the exception of last night) and I wish the same could be said for me. I wake up at every sound because I think it's the baby waking up, or I wake up for no reason and can't fall back to sleep. I woke up every night for nine months and now it's hard to sleep through the night. I'm slowly getting better but have moments where I still feel yucky. I figure it took me nine months to get here and it will take longer than a month or two to be back to normal. I went to the doctor this week and I'm well enough that post partum restrictions are lifted. (Now to work on the pregnancy weight).

John started a new thing this week; instead of just kicking his legs like he is riding a bicycle, he now lifts them up into the air (so his legs are at a 90* angle to the floor) and pumps them up and down. He loves doing this and usually "talks" when he does. He is liking his bouncer more and more and doesn't need to be held as much as he used to. He is becoming more aware. He is starting to discover that he has hands and that he can control them (usually while he's grabbing a handful of my hair). He doesn't like to be alone so one of us has to talk to him while he has floor time (if we're using the time to do some chores or homework). On Sunday, he was crying in his crib after he woke up from his nap. When I walked in his room and he saw me he stopped crying. Robert fed him one morning (early) and he spit the bottle out, looked at Robert, and smiled. It's moments like these that make the less than pleasant times worth it. I love this baby!

Many people have requested more pictures so here is a random sampling.

Minutes after he was born. Can you believe he fit inside of me.
Eating with auntie Christine at the cabin around Christmas.

Meeting Grandpa Duffy. My dad was sick when John was born so he didn't get to hold him until John was one month old. My dad loves being a grandpa.

Hanging out at the cabin with Grandma Great. (My Grandma. I thought I had a picture of John with Grandpa Great but I don't)

On his blessing day.

Another blessing day picture.

Just after he got dressed.

His first day of law school with mom and dad. (I had explained the finer points of the bibs the law school gals made him. I think he absorbed that conversation well).

Sleeping in his car seat. He slept through my entire doctors appointment.

Goodnight to you all. Sleep well.

Back to Real Life

School has started again and I'll be honest I don't know how I'm going to do it. I'm still healing and have 14 credits plus my substantive writing to do (thank you 30 page paper). Robert and I staggered our schedules so one of us is with John at all times. It's kind of weird not to go to school with Robert. We've had at least one class together a semester and seen each other during the day but not anymore. I'm tired and in pain and I just want another week to recover. I don't understand why we start school again so soon; other schools get a month off for break and half the professors cancel class the first week because they have to attend the AALS meeting in San Diego. I just want one more week, heck I took finals two weeks after having a baby with an infection and 103* fever - why can't I have one more week? I just want to feel like myself again, I haven't for a long time. Okay enough of the negativity now.

John had a great night Sunday and slept 7 hours. I knew it wouldn't last; the last two nights have not been so good. Yesterday was good. I got the laundry done, cleaned the apartment, watched John, and did my homework. It's going to be a long semester but it will be great to have my JD. It is nice to have other things going on besides poopy diapers and sleepless nights. It's also great to have my brain engaged in something to keep it sharp. Plus, I love the law. I love digging into it and figuring it out and using it to solve problems. Yeah, I know I'm a nerd :) I miss John everyday I'm at school and love going home to see my husband and my baby.

Anyway, John is adorable and loves his floor time more and more, he actually fussed because he wanted to be put down. He now likes his bouncer. At first he would cry when he was in it ( I thought "great we paid how much for something he hates"). I had a ton of laundry to do yesterday and he wouldn't go down for a nap. Whenever I got him to sleep and would put him in his crib he would wake up crying 10 minutes later (It's a good thing he's so cute). I finally put him in the bouncer. He loved it and was good for about 30 minutes. His bounder has a bar overhead with jungle animals hanging from it. He loved watching as they moved. I talked to him while I sorted and started the laundry, made my bed, took a shower, and got some things picked up. It was great. He also purposely smiles. I was getting frustrated because he wouldn't sleep. He looked right in my eyes and smiled at me (baby survival tactic if you ask me) and my heart just melted. He is exercising his voice more and more. He squeals and coos when he has floor time, especially if you talk to him and tickle his stomach. Robert and I are starting to decipher his different cries and getting some of this baby stuff down. John loves to cuddle and sometimes he wakes up and just wants to cuddle.

Happy New Year!

Christmas - Week 5

John is now 5 weeks old and he had his first Christmas. We are at my family's cabin in Midway, Utah. Robert and I admit that it has been nice having some help. So many people have been wanting to hold him, feed him, and even change diapers. It has been nice to have a meal or take a shower where you aren't racing the baby nap clock!

John had his first bath where he didn't scream at all. I let him play in the warm water today and he loved it. When he got out of it he didn't even cry = milestone. He had a rough couple of days. He either has gas or acid reflux. He screamed a lot last night. Auntie Meredith (my awesome sister in law) was a nanny for a year to a three year old and an infant. The infant had bad acid reflux so she had some good tips. He started to do better during the night when Robert and I tried her tips. I'm so glad that other people know what they are doing; it saves me from having to figure things out via trial and error. We also tried some Mylicon drops (for gas) that were recommended by my friend Micci and those seemed to help as well.

John has also realized he enjoys floor time. He will lay there on his blanket (surrounded by willing admirers) and kick his chubby legs and move his arms back and forth. He also started cooing and trying to "talk." It is really fun to watch (I admit that I am biased:) ) Today he also started deliberately smiling. He looked right at me while Meredith was holding him, focused on me and smiled (letting his pasi fall out of his mouth). He did the same thing to grandpa Duffy. He loves the swing and his food. If you don't feed him fast enough when he wakes up he lets you know he is not happy.

Robert and I have to go buy books this week and prepare for classes to begin again. It is going to be a tough semester. I have a full load plus my substantive writing. At least when it's over I will have my law degree!

I'll have to add pictures later because I'm posting from another computer. My Internet is not working at the moment.

Week Four

Getting ready for bed. He loves this sleeper

Staring at the clock (see below) and moving his arms.


Finally asleep. Mom wants to be asleep too.


Bonding with daddy.

Week four has passed. I can't believe John-John is four weeks old. Some funny things: he loves looking and listening to the clock hanging above his changing table, once you lay him down he stares intently at it. He likes his baths and cries less now, the toaster intrigues him. When he's staring at something that he doesn't quite understand his mouth forms and O and his eyes get really big. He continues to eat well but he's spitting up now as well. He is growing out of his 3 month clothes (the pediatrician said the dates on baby clothes aren't accurate) and is learning to use his legs to push off of things (read: mom and dad). He has slept 5-6 hours that last few nights and we are hoping that lasts; the trade off - he is awake a lot during the day (we'll take sleep at night over productivity during the day).

I'm continuing to heal but it is taking longer than I thought. I've had a rough couple of days this week where I couldn't sleep and couldn't do much during the day. It's hard. I spent nine months dealing with pregnancy and now more time recovering from it. Don't misunderstand me, it is worth it and I love my son, recovery is just harder than I thought it would be. I cannot wait to get to my doctor so I can discuss what happened during delivery so I can ensure it doesn't happen with subsequent deliveries. At least I get to eat sugar and treats again! YUUUUUM! Christmas is almost here and I am excited for family to come into town.

Goodbye to Finals

Finals are done. I just finished a paper and just have to turn it in. Robert is at school today so he can finish a big paper he has due. I've spent the day cleaning, doing laundry, finishing my paper, and taking care of John-John. Christmas is coming and I can't wait. It's always hard to get in the Christmas mood while finals are in full swing. I'm excited to have some time at the cabin.

I am continuing to recover and feel almost human again. I can't believe I have managed to have a baby and take law school finals in a little over three weeks. Thank goodness for family and the Lord who have made that possible - I could not have done it alone.

John is continuing to transform from a newborn into a baby. He has more awake time and is intrigued by the Christmas Tree lights. He is holding his head up really well. When we burp him he holds his head up and looks around for a few minutes. He is starting to love bath time. He started pumping his legs in the water, but he still screams when we take him out. He is a little munch-mouth and is getting adorable chubby cheeks. He is also daddy's little poop-monster (Robert's nickname for him when he has a poopy diaper) and kicks his legs so much when we change his diaper that it is hard to get the new diaper back on. He is a cutie and we love him so much. Babies change life so much but they are worth it. Even though I love it when he naps, there are times that I just like cuddling my little (happy) baby.

Happy Holidays!

It's That Time of Year Again

No not the holidays...FINALS. Okay, so the holidays are here too, but before we get to enjoy them we have to brave finals. Only two this semester for me and one for Robert; we both took several pass/fail classes this semester with John on the way. We took very few pass/fail classes the last two years so it is a welcome break. Robert has two papers to write and I have one. We had our tax final today, I just hope that I passed (I say this after every final, but with having John and then the infection I hope things went well). It is interesting looking at the 1L's this year and remembering what it is was like taking those first round of finals. I'm glad I'm past that point. My mom came and stayed with us so we could study for finals and she watched John while we took our finals. She is enjoying being a grandma and we are grateful for the help. Thanks mom.

It is very cold here, and snowy. We had a storm dump several inches of snow the past few days and another one is moving in so we will get more. I was hoping for a mild winter, but I guess you can't have everything in life.

John had his check-up and is doing well. He gained over a pound (I guess I know where he puts all that food he eats) and looks good. His reflexes and growth were all great. Here is a picture of the cute little one.

Week Two

Week two has not gone as well. John has been great. He is a little more fussy and is having more "awake" time between naps. He loves to cuddle right before he goes to sleep. He hates being cold. When we change his diaper he cries because he is cold (although now he is starting to realize that it's temporary and we will put his pants back on). He used to cry all during bath time but not anymore. Once he's in the water he's fine because it's warm; he screams when we take him out until his clothes are on and he's swaddled and being held. I don't blame him I don't like being cold either.

Week two has not gone as well because I got sick. I have an infection that I probably caught in the hospital. The doctor kept asking me how long I felt sick. I wanted to say "hello, I had a baby two weeks ago, that's how long I've been feeling sick and gross." The past three days I have been really sick. Flu-like symptoms and everything. Robert was in class yesterday and had work after class, but I called him during class and told him to come home. He took my temperature - 102 degrees. We found a babysitter for John while Robert took me to the doctor. I felt so horrible I went in my pajamas and a blanket (summer pajamas no less because I kept getting the chills then 10 minutes later I would sweat like I was at the gym); the sad thing is, I didn't care how I looked because I felt so horrible. My temperature was 103 when I got there. They spent the next four hours running tests to figure out what was wrong. They finally gave me a shot of antibiotics (Robert said it was a 2 inch needle) in my hip and told me to come back in the morning. Brian watched John this morning and we were there when they opened at 8 o'clock. My fever was down as were my blood pressure, and heart rate. They ran more tests which confirmed that I had an infection and gave me a prescription for antibiotics. I've been sleeping, picking up, and doing laundry.

Robert has been absolutely wonderful. He has been up with John the last three nights (we usually tag team it) because I've been sick and has been great taking care of me. I am so thankful for my wonderful husband. I am also thankful for my son who was really good for his babysitters. I am also thankful for Brian and Lorena who watched John on such short notice; we couldn't have done it without you.